This article is a reblog from the original by Ken Goldstein accessible via following link: (https://corporateintelligenceradio.com/2019/01/01/saving-our-language-in-the-new-year/)
New Year’s Resolution #1:
Stop beginning any spoken sentence with Candidly, Honestly, Quite Frankly, Truthfully, or To Tell You The Truth. Stagnant qualifiers pollute our language. If these preambles aren’t implicit, don’t speak.
I posted that mandate to myself on Facebook and Twitter in the final week of 2018. As much as I try to be vigilant about avoiding these sorts of speech patterns, I have fallen prey on too many occasions of late in allowing these bogus exclamations to slip into my vocabulary.
Without making any excuses, I will say it’s only natural to begin parroting the vernacular of the day. Over the past two years our airwaves have been filled unnaturally with overuse of such useless and cynical interjections. I don’t need to remind you of the bellowing source. You hear it as much as I do. You are inevitably aware of its repetitious origin. When bombastic authority misfires repeatedly, it becomes human nature to echo the poor refrain.
Curiously, my warning to myself was not only met with endorsement and cheer, but with further suggestions to all who share a love of our language. It seems that banal misuses and abuses of our language only begin with my singular new year’s resolution. I guess there are many of us who would like to speak more eloquently or less sloppily as we advance together in history.
Below I excerpt some of the comments shared on social media in response to my resolution, without specific name attribution to protect the privacy of the wise circle offering recommendations. Perhaps some of these will ring true as this post circulates and the collection will pick up further steam and participation. I believe as long as we are working against social devolution, there is hope yet our beloved language can endure erosion and deterioration that might otherwise undermine substance and meaning.
Here are some of those shared comments and suggestions:
Add to the list: “So…” I hate when people start a sentence that way.
Beginning a statement with “honestly” also conveys that it’s different from your other statements — which must be lies.
I’d add “believe me” as a sentential ending.
When I was a young lawyer — many, many years ago — I was told that when a witness started his/her answer with something like “to be honest with you…” he/she was about to lie.
Actually, in my opinion (humble or otherwise)…
Stop prefacing earnest speechifying with “Let’s be clear” or some variation thereof.
Stop ending letters and emails with “sincerely.” And why do we still start letters with “Dear…?”
Come on, few people in this day and age deserve such acknowledgement, yet we use it for letters sent to strangers and corporations. Save it for friends and loved ones.
For God’s sake, don’t use “for God’s sake.” I doubt He/She cares.
“With all due respect” is a lead in that often means “I don’t respect your opinion at all, you moron.” A
nd why do some people preface their own opinion with “some people feel that…?” Are they too afraid to own their opinion?
I’d like never again to hear “with all due respect.” It implies no respect is actually due.
Unless you started a statement with a joke, don’t begin a new statement with “In all seriousness…”
And never state that “It’s common knowledge that…” Too many people use that to give support for their own narrow opinion.
Don’t say “literally.” Ugh.
And “respectfully.”
Don’t end a statement with a question, such as “…isn’t it?”
Don’t forget “needless to say,” the most pointless one of all. I’m trying to get rid of “Know that…” in my emails. When you’re done with this mission, tackle adjectives in general.
I once asked a question of some guest speaker at a very large public meeting starting a sentence with “surely.” He responded that he distrusts any question beginning that way because it sounds as if I had already made up my mind! My friends who were there quoted the line from Airplane: “Don’t call me Shirley.”
So, there you have it, literally some easy fixes for the new year. Honestly, we can’t fix the entire world, but quite frankly, any healing in our broken communication is worth the effort. With all due respect, it’s worth a try, isn’t it?
